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Showing posts with label Bridal Party. Show all posts

Tuesday

Travel Tuesday: Ste Anne's Spa - Luxury retreat in Grafton, ON

Man oh man did I need to get away last month. I don’t know if it was the crazy long winter that got my mood down, life, or just general stress around tax time; whatever it was, I needed a break!
No makeup selfie:) 

Lucky for me, since I’m heading in the retreat planning direction; Health & Wellness retreats; Couples Retreats; and Business Meetings or Professionals retreats, I was invited to explore the beautiful SteAnne’s Spa. I met Marketing Manager, Wanda at the Ignite Business Expo earlier in the year and let her know I was venturing into retreats; before I knew it, she arranged for a glorious spa getaway for me to experience the magic first-hand. In addition, my dear photographer friend, Joee Wong gifted me a gift certificate, which got me a second night and several wellness treatments!

So, without further thought, I jumped in my car and off to Grafton I drove, for 3 full days and 2 nights at Ste Anne’s Spa, just 90 minutes East of Toronto.

Once I got off the highway and entered the dirt road winding over to the Spa, there were very thoughtful and fun messages disguised as road signs: ‘Yield to your inner self’ or ‘Take a deep breath…and relax’. Of course, this just made me super excited and I knew that if this trip didn’t get me to ‘chill-out’, nothing would.  Parking was free and once I got in to check-in, they addressed me by name, gave me a tour of the property and treated me as if they had known me forever. Just the type of experience I was looking for…pure comfort from the get-go.




My room, just a short drive away at the Birdsong Spa Cottage, was beautiful. The Eagle’s Nest Suite was huge; in fact, the bathroom was as big as my living room!! Take a look at the photos. I loved the homey feel to it, from the colours to the fireplace. So calming!




The Property itself is huge. It stretches over 400 acres and includes a fitness facility, several cottages, their very own stables, trails, gardens, bakery and the main building. The main building is where the action happens. It houses a gift shop, hydrotherapy spa with Eucalyptus Steam Room, massage rooms, an outdoor pool, waiting rooms, living room, reading room, spa rooms, steam room, sauna and hot tub in the change rooms and wellness rooms. 









The Spa is incredible. Ranging from Purifying cleansing treatments to holistic treatments and everything in between! Now, you don’t have to get a spa service to use the facilities. The Hydrotherapy Spa: Eucalyptus Steam, Hot Tub, Cold Plunge Pool and Lap Pool are at your fingertips all day; as are the massage chairs, fitness facility (down the street) featuring a pool treadmill, hot tub and sauna as well as full Gym Equipment.

The Spa & Wellness Services I took part in for both days were the Nidra Yoga and Meditation, I also chose the Chakra Balancing as my massage option. I had never done Nidra Yoga before and thought it would be something interesting to try as it promised to clear my mind. That is exactly what it did… in fact, the second day; I actually fell asleep during the session. The Chakra Balancing was amazing. It combined, aromatherapy, reflexology, light massage and chakra balancing to relax and balance my mind and soul. Combined with the meditation, believe me when I tell you that I felt like a whole new person! 

The Restaurant is fine dining meets country cooking at it’s best! Aside from them being incredibly accommodating to my dietary needs, the food is all-fresh, homemade and impeccably presented; the taste is DELECTABLE! I admit, I did have a cheat or two… I couldn’t help it; the desserts and breads are amazing. Did I mention they are all Gluten-Free! In addition they offer culinary classes, a private chef experience and their very own Bakery (near the Birdsong Cottages) that will cater to absolutely all your needs. If you have very specific dietary needs, give them 48 hours notice and they will do all they can to create something for you.







And finally, the Staff! Where do I start with the service? These people collectively make the resort what it is. Without them, it would not be the same. They are all-accommodating and all went out of their way to make my experience exceptional. I could tell they loved their work and were genuinely happy to help.

Overall, this is an ideal location for a local honeymoon, a reconnecting trip pre-wedding or just a trip to rest with your Bestie or Mom.  

My top 5 highlights of Ste Anne's Spa:
1.     They make their own granola and it is amazing!
2.     Teatime is my favourite time and at Ste Anne’s it is fantastic! They have a tea menu that is extensive and original that taste delicious.
3.     The walking trails are something I’ll do next time for sure. It was way to muddy when I was there as it had been raining.
4.     I was in one of the living rooms and a wellness therapist came in and offered           
me a hand massage complimentary. It was wonderful.
4.     All the sitting areas were sooo incredibly comfortable, but my fave was the library/games room.


Wedding Party Duties by WeDDings Jubilee Planning

Written by DeeDee Georgiou-Newell
Edited by Ieshia Wagner

Being asked to be part of a wedding party is a huge honor and responsibility. This is why it is a decision that should not be made lightly. Before you say ‘Yes’, make sure you are able to commit to the planning and financial responsibilities involved. Here is a list of the most predominant responsibilities for each member of the wedding party:


Maid of Honour/Matron of Honour/ Man of Honour

  • Escort and assist the bride to find her perfect wedding dress.
  • Assist with selecting the bridesmaid dresses, based on the Bride's specifications.
  • Purchase your own dress and accessories, based on the Bride's specifications.
  • Pay for your own hair and makeup.
  • Assist bride with various wedding duties. If she does not ask for help, it is appropriate to offer.
  • If needed, assist in addressing wedding invitations.
  • Spread the word about where the couple is registered
  • Plan and host a bridal shower for the Bride.
  • Be present for all pre-wedding events.
  • Keep an ongoing list of pre-wedding gifts that may have been received at the Engagement, Showers etc.
  • Along with the Bridal Party, plan a stagette (aka bachelorette) party.
  • Attend the Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner.
  • Be a point of contact to the Wedding Planner on the day of the wedding.
  • Assist with pick up’s and Drop off’s prior to and post wedding.
  • Assist with dressing the bride in her Wedding attire.
  • Make sure the Bride has a bite to eat in the morning prior to the ceremony.
  • Hold onto groom's ring until minister asks for it on day of wedding (you may be asked to hold both rings prior to the ceremony).
  • Precede the Bride down the aisle.
  • Stand beside bride during ceremony.
  • Rearrange the bride's wedding gown train during the ceremony as necessary.
  • Hold the bouquet and possibly gloves during the exchanging of the rings until after they kiss.
  • Greet guests at the reception, you may be asked to stand at the receiving line; help giving out favors or help guest be seated.
  • You may be asked to make a speech or toast during the reception
  • Bustle the Brides Dress, if needed.
  • Ensure that all gifts are collected and transported to the Couple's home, post reception.

Best Man/Best Woman

  • Spread the word about where the couple is registered
  • Be present at all pre-wedding events.
  • Plan the bachelor and/or Stag Party for the Groom (plan, invite guests).
  • Accompany Groom to purchase or rent his Tuxedo.
  • Purchase or rent your own Tuxedo.
  • Attend the Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner
  • Be a point of contact to the Wedding Planner on the day of the wedding.
  • Assist with pick up’s and Drop off’s prior to and post wedding.
  • Ensure that Groom's tie and handkerchief are straight, suit linted and looking pristine.
  • Make sure the Groom has a bite to eat in the morning prior to the ceremony.
  • Hold onto Bride's ring until minister asks for it on day of wedding (you may be asked to hold both rings prior to the ceremony).
  • Ensure groom arrives on time at the ceremony (usually about 45 minutes early).
  • Help Greet and Seat guests.
  • Stand beside the Groom during ceremony.
  • Be prepared for the Grand Entrance during the reception.
  • Make first toast at the reception.
  • Make a speech at the reception.
  • Offer to return the groom’s wedding attire to the tuxedo store.
  • Offer to return any items after the wedding.
  • Assist with loading and transporting Gifts after the wedding.

Bridesmaids

  • Assist with selecting the bridesmaid dresses, based on the Bride's specifications.
  • Purchase your own dress and accessories, based on the Bride's specifications.
  • Pay for your own hair and make-up.
  • Assist bride with various wedding duties. If she does not ask for help, it is appropriate to offer.
  • Help with all wedding Pre-events (bridal shower, bachelorette party etc.)
  • Attend the Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner.
  • Precede the Maid/Matron of Honor down the aisle.
  • Stand beside maid of honor during ceremony.
  • Greet and direct Guests at reception.You may be asked to give out favors or be part of the receiving duties at the start of the reception.
  • Help with some reception tasks such as seating guests.
  • Be prepared for the Grand Entrance during the reception.


Groomsman

  • Spread the word about where the couple is registered
  • Pay for your own tuxedo rental
  • Assist the Best Man with any pre-wedding events (Bachelor or Stag Party)
  • Attend the Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner.
  • Greet guests at the ceremony
  • If there are no ushers, assist guests to their seats
  • Stand beside best man during ceremony
  • Greet and direct Guests at reception.You may be asked to give out favors or be part of the receiving duties at the start of the reception.
  • Help direct guests to the dining room after cocktail hour.
  • Be prepared for the Grand Entrance during the reception.



Flower Girl/Ring Boy

  • Attend the Rehearsal & Dinner. If it is an adult only reception alternate plans would be made. There are great companies that cater to children that would be worth looking into it, like Little Party Goers in Toronto.
  • Precede the Bride during the ceremony
  • Ring Boy would hold either the real rings or mock rings.
  • Flower girl could throw down rose petals or simply walk down the aisle. I've also seen the Ring Boy pull the Flower girl in, in a wagon (if she is really young) and vice versa.
  • Bride & Groom can pay for the attire or the parents of the children can pay.
  • Be prepared for the Grand Entrance during the reception.